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Posted By: vikas Arora on July 23, 2008
| All of us make mistakes when dealing with our bosses. And if your boss is someone who gets a million mood swings, knowing what to say and what not to say and when is extremely difficult. However, there are some standard statements that no boss appreciates. For example | |||
| It's impossible to do so much | |||
Let’s accept that the task is indeed far from achievable but you need not throw up your hands and declare the same to your boss.
Chances are that the so-called ‘impossible’ task means a lot to him and starting off on a pessimistic note makes things even more difficult.
The least you can do is carry on for that moment and try and explain your point of view later. More so, go a step further and give alternate solutions
Is this it? I expected it to be a lot better
Get on the other side of the fence and you will know that it’s very difficult to meet up to your employees’ expectations.
However, it’s imperative, at least out of courtesy that you appreciate whatever little your boss does for you.
If he gets a new water cooler installed, appreciate the act. Don’t fuss if it doesn’t give out ice-cold water.
These unrealistic expectations and over-smart comments won’t do any good if you plan to be in the good books of your boss.
That's not my problem Always remember, the higher the position, the more the responsibilities. There will be times when your boss is expected to pack in a lot more than he can handle. This wasn't told to me during recruitment Agreed, many things that your boss asks you to do may not have been put down in black and white in your offer letter. How important is this task? If your boss hasn’t made up his mind to make your life difficult, he won’t assign you a task that is not important. That's a very bad idea So when was the last time you came up with an idea that had everyone floored in the weekly meeting? We should hook up on orkut/facebook No, you shouldn't, ever! What if your Boss is not interested in sharing his/her social life with his employees? Drunk last night that... You want to strike an informal conversation with your boss and the first thing that comes to your mind is that extremely exciting (or shall we say embarrassing) incident when you created a scene at the local bar after gulping down half a dozen beer bottles. | |||
I don't get paid enough
Then please quit and make space for someone who is a little more thankful towards this job.’
That’s the standard, ready-made and impulsive response that any boss will give unless he is extremely desperate to keep you on board. Statements like these serve no purpose.
They only bring out your frustration and convey how unhappy you are in your job. Even if that’s the case, you don’t let your boss know because the next time you fail to meet a deadline, the incompetence will be seen in connection with the ‘salary’ excuse.
Sigh!
long sigh is seen as a sign of annoyance and being fed up. So, a sigh coming out from you won’t be seen as any exception.
Also, a confused sigh is something that leaves many-a-things open for your boss’ personal interpretation. Few things in life are as risky as that.
Courtesy: TOI
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